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生活中的5个球6 X0 \! b: L( ~/ o/ u
* n' |: b" D' K; ~/ |1 q3 }可口可乐总裁 Brian G. Dyson
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设想生活是一场游戏,你正试图把玩5个抛向空中的球。这5个球是工作、家庭、健康、朋友、心灵。2 Y$ Q" r6 L' ]/ s7 ~
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你很快就会明白,工作是一个橡皮球。如果,不小心掉下,它还会弹回来。但其他四个球—家庭、健康、朋友和心灵却是玻璃做成的。如果,你不小心,掉下其中的任何一个,它们就会不可弥补地被刻上斑痕、留下缺口、被损坏、甚至破碎。它们绝不会完好如初。
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+ Y7 Z) I, r& {8 O5 D2 l你必须明白这一点,从而努力平衡你的生活。" j) W% {6 t- D+ r
' u2 ~4 Y* \( n0 P* S怎样才能做好?, S- S; r. q+ t+ f/ g i& X
. V( i# U) [8 y1. 不要总是跟别人去比而低估你自己的价值。人与人是不同的,每个人都有自己的特色。
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2. 不要基于别人的择重去设定你的目标,只有你自己才知道什么最适合你。* z( r) _7 B, P- G# S* w h7 c% Y
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3. 不要忽视那些最贴近你心坎的人和物。一生中,尽可能黏恋它们。没有这些,生活将毫无意义。
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4. 即不要生活在过去,也不要生活为未来。过好每一天,你便会过好你今生的全部。5 e+ `9 m8 Z; {' U0 c) j
8 Q" c( |, N- N2 t5. 不要轻言放弃,当你还可以给予、尝试。事情只终结于当你放弃的那一刻。
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- T' R& v, J @% ^$ [2 p4 Q7 M6. 不要害怕承认自己不够完美。正是这根纤弱的丝线将我们绑在一起。0 k/ ^& `1 B) G( N$ F: C: a' M
4 O E( S" U& }0 w( ?. h7. 不要害怕遭遇危险。正是这些机遇,让我们学会勇敢。 8 n0 ~; w0 O2 [& Y0 @
- }6 ]. i& s) ]3 R% i" p3 n8. 不要轻言爱情无法寻到而关上心扉。得到爱的最快途径是给予;失去爱的最快途径是拥握太紧;而拥有爱的最好办法是给爱装上翅膀。8 ^' a* A) g& P( v( S( g, p
- x3 L, e5 l" O9. 不要仓促你的人生,以至于你不但全然忘记去过那里,更不知今后所望。
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10. 不要忘记,人类情感最需要的是欣赏、感激。
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11. 不要害怕学习。知识是一种无重的、可以轻易携带的珍宝。
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12. 不要轻易的浪费时间,也不要口无遮掩 。两者都无可挽回。
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原文:8 e: P7 n0 Z9 ?5 }1 q2 K3 e
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This was written by the CEO of Coca-Cola Brian G. Dyson.
+ A; ?: O6 h: w, ?* `1 u, u4 UIt was used as Georgia Tech\'s Commencement Address:
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/ f9 w0 ]6 D% I$ Q( y3 ^Imagine life as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air.
5 r; Z3 ^ X$ t, H+ TYou name them - Work - Family - Health - Friends - Spirit, and you\'re keeping all of these in the air.
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You will soon understand that work is a rubber ball. If you drop it, it will bounce back. But the other four balls -- family, health, friends and spirit are made of glass. If you drop one of these, they will be irrevocably scuffed, marked, nicked, damaged or even shattered.- A/ E0 p9 X2 |+ x, r
They will never be the same. You must understand that and strive for balance in your life. How?, g2 ^+ l: P i2 b7 J3 z8 d2 p. d
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1. Don\'t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others. It is because we are different that each of us is special.
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# X9 c7 E* i; o6 j2. Don\'t set your goals by what other people deem important. Only you know what is best for you.
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/ m. }( ^: _6 p6 B' {6 q% n+ ?) v, X3. Don\'t take for granted the things closest to your heart. Cling to them as you would your life, for without them, life is meaningless.
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4. Don\'t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future. By living your life one day at a time, you live ALL the days of your life.8 i# c5 ^9 W' e$ E, t+ N+ E
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5. Don\'t give up when you still have something to give. Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying.
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6. Don\'t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us together.
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7. Don\'t be afraid to encounter risks It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave.
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( n, f0 O: a- D- I, t: }# U: x8. Don\'t shut love out of your life by saying it\'s impossible to find. The quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to hold it too tightly; and the best way to keep love is to give it wings., h4 a# Z) c7 p2 a, v& N
I: S9 J4 f; c3 z' j9. Don\'t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you\'ve been, but also where you are going./ J5 S/ I8 Q% m5 Y; D; }" d
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10. Don\'t forget that a person\'s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated.) m' P- d. m9 j, D! l8 l6 x. ?
, H& A. S# O f0 j11. Don\'t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless, a treasure you can always carry easily.' d/ P1 b# N- I3 i
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12. Don\'t use time or words carelessly. Neither can be retrieved.
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